You have a partner/friend/sibling/activity buddy who wants to start wearing rad underthings, and you want to help them. Or, you want to start experimenting with lingerie and feel overwhelmed. (That is 100% normal, btw!)

This gift guide was created with you in mind. These are some of our best recommendations (and bestsellers), handpicked for you this holiday season. Sizes here range from XS-3X.

1. Dino Bone Bra by Bad Bunny

You absolutely can't go wrong with the Dino Bone Bra by Bad Bunny. This is one of our bestsellers for a few reasons: first, that print. DINOSAURS ON YOUR BRA. Second, it's super soft. Third - and our full busted customers appreciate this - it's actually one of the more supportive bralettes out there. Available XS-XL.

2. Black Lace Ballet Wrap Robe by RavenDreams

If you're willing to put down some cash, a stunningly crafted robe is one of the best lingerie pieces you can invest in. Not only are robes far more versatile than most folks acknowledge acknowledge (robes like this make for a stellar evening wrap for fancy occasions and dates and such), but robes made like this one last for years. And years. And years. This robe by RavenDreams is basically the dream. One size fits XL-3X (US) and 18-24 (UK).

3. Charcoal Lace Boxers by Foxers

These lace boxers by Foxers are our bestselling bottom, by far. Lace that is comfy and not itchy. A generous fit. And you can wear them anywhere: to bed, as comfy (or sexy) loungewear, under your work jeans, under that gorgeous retro A-line dress. Available XS-XXL.

4. Kai Hold Ups by Erica M

For lingerie newbs who are uncertain about hold ups, might we humbly suggest these attention-grabbing, sturdy as fuck hold ups by Erica M.? While you might scoff at splurging on hosiery, these are worth it, if only because they help you walk into a party feeling like Cleopatra or Freddie Mercury. Available S-XL.

5. Classic Suspender Belt by Playful Promises

For the stocking lovers and retro fiends in the room: a solid suspender belt (like this one by Playful Promises) is absolutely essential. And this minimalist design is easy on, easy off. Available XS-L.

6. Fox Dress by Knickerocker

A dress WITH POCKETS that works for both grocery shopping and sleepwear? Where the fuck do I sign up. Oh yes. This dress by Knickerocker. It's cute, quirky, a great conversation starter, and is also the softest thing to sleep in. There is much to love here. A guaranteed crowd pleaser. Available XS-XL.

7. Gift Card to Bluestockings!

A gift card is one of the best options. In some situations, it's the best option: when someone is in between sizes, or if you want to surprise them and therefore not ask for their sizes in advance. Gift cards don't expire and are a good choice pretty much 100% of the time.